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so i’ve been seeing a cool girl, but it’s still early…so i think I can do this without feeling guilty…
At this past halloween, i was sort of dating this girl, and we both went to a halloween party as Robin Hoods, both wearing green, glossy shiny, high quality tights/pantyhose. She loved halloween, and we went to a couple bars/parties over the course of the weekend. As the weekend went on (i guess the second night) i got bolder, and we fooled around at my place in our costumes, with our pantyhose/tights on, and i kept saying how “erotic” everything was, and so on and so on…she was game, without of course saying anything like “fuck me while you’re wearing tights while i have my tights on - it makes me wet!” of course nothing that mindblowing, but as I said she was keen to fool around any which way i guess…Needless to say, it was great. Really nice….amazing. I loved the combo of role play/costume/nylon. Great stuff, all of it.
In any event, she was kind of bitchy, and i just realized we were not a fit to move forward into any kind of meaningful relationship….so it ended.
Well, just yesterday, I just got the urge, got really bold, and sent her an “out of the blue email” saying, “hey, I was thinking about our halloween weekend and how erotic and hot the role play and costumes were…” and THEN - I threw it on the line….”would you be open to me buying you dinner, and then we go back and do a ‘dress rehearsel’ for the next time we go to a costume party? make sure we still look great in our costumes! hahaha!”so on and so on…I said “if you’re not into it, no worries i understand.”
Well, she bit, and just said “sure, sounds good” - and that’s it..so on paper sounds like I’m going to have some pantyhose kinky fun…and i hope so. I think i will…..
But what can I do to ease my anxiety/embarassment when the time actually comes (tomorrow night)….i mean, it’s one thing to just get dressed up for halloween, i mean, it is halloween, that’s just what you do.
Now, cards are on the table. I’m basically admitting I have a kinky sort of fetish. I keep expecting her to be like “dude, wait, are you really for real?” and laughing at me…i know it’s probably just me being hyper-aware and sensitive, but, you know what I mean. It’s kinda scary! I guess there is really no answer to this - guess i’m just looking for positive reinforcement
Go for it!!!
You’ve already crossed that first hurdle…being with her out in the open with hose on. She and you BOTH had fun with it, right? Plus your latest email was specific about the hosed fun you had. Can’t spell it out any clearer for her than that!
The way I see it…You hadn’t seen her in several months. If she shows up and DOESN’T want to have any tights/pantyhose fun, then what have you lost?
Go for it, my man! And don’t forget to take pictures this time!!
It doesn’t sound like you need any reinforcement! It sounds like she is game for having a good time with you no matter what, so go for it and just don’t let her down!
I really don’t think you have to worry about blowing it with her. I mean the only thing you could do to screw this up would be to show up with tights on under your pants and tell her how much they turn you on. (I know it might be tempting to try this, but it might come off as a bit strange and scare her off).
So short of doing something like that, just play it safe. Go out, have a few drinks, let her loosen up a bit and when you get back home, just play it naturally, just like last time!
Good luck!
whoops! i forgot to report! i guess that kind of says it all. Underwhelming by just a bit. Well, I really shouldn’t complain. It was good, we both got into costume and wore tights, so that was a success - it’s just that she’s so “whatever” about it, it dampens it. I know - beggars should not be choosers.
We went to dinner, it was fine, but I was reminded there about why I don’t really *like* this girl that much. She’s just kind of self-centered, and…distant, and, I don’t know - hard to talk to.
Anyway, in some ways that makes it almost easier to kind of “fetish-ize” the moment in some ways. Yes and no i guess.
Anyway, we get back to my place and we start fooling around. I’m really on the fence about bringing up the pantyhose and costumes, because, well damnit, it’s just hard to bring back up, even IF she remembers the email and the deal we were talking about. You can tell she’d be just as happy (probably more happy) if we just continued on as we were.
BUT - i go for it. Said something like “so, you wanna get into costume?” totally self-consciously, and she’s like “sure, whatever,” all soft like, and SHRUGS. That’s it. She’s just hard to read. No mischevous smile, no nothing.
Anyway, I jump up, and we go to the bedroom, where I’ve laid out her tights/pantyhose and costume. I take mine and leave the room for the living room and get into costume. I’m ready, head back to the bedroom, and she’s just about ready, fixing her pantyhose. I’m of course kind of embarrased, and immediately just go to her and grab her, hardly taking the time to admire her and all that. I just wanted to make it move along (but at the same time would have loved to really linger the moment)….
So - we collapse on the bed, and fool around, and slip and slide in nylon. Hot? yeah, it was nice…for sure. Again, I wish I could have taken pictures, or said funny/kinky/dirty things about the costumes, or WHATEVER. Just LOOKED at her more. Something to make it more fun. But again, I just got the sense that she was like “why did he get me into a costume to just throw me on the bed and fool around?” i don;t know….maybe it’s just me…
So we go on for awhile, it’s definitely hot being like that and in bed, but after awhile I’m like, damn, I gotta ask her if I should get a condom, and if we should have sex. She basically shakes her head no, and we just continue to fool around, in the same position - me on top of her, slipping and sliding, and her lying sort of still. But she did that when we were not in pantyhose too, so…so finally, I cum in my tights, on her leg, and that was it. And I wanted to get out of the costume quick at that point.
So, it seems like a great thing, but I guess because of her in *some* ways it was not….I think, again, it comes down to me not liking her that much, even though she is pretty hot with great long legs. I mean, she was great around halloween not thinking TWICE about me in tights more than one night (and in fact touching my legs) - but this time, i don;t know…I guess, what do I expect.
So that’s it. Thumbs sideways. Not amazing, not bad. She’s still emailing me, so i guess she still likes me.