pantyhose xxx

While most men try to talk women OUT of their pantyhose, I try to talk mine INTO a pair. In today’s barelegged world this can be exceedingly difficult.

Keep in mind that there are “exceptions to every rule”. Every woman is different, so you must adapt and evolve to every situation.

In my experience, a woman wants to feel that you love and want HER, not just what she is wearing or a part of her body.

I have had success by taking it slowly. If you know she hates pantyhose, or you are uncomfortable or unsure of her reaction to the fetish world, do not rush!

The first step is getting her in a dress or skirt rather than pants. Start by taking her to a formal event to get her to dress up. Dinner at a nice establishment and then a ballet or opera or the theatre. Weddings, charity events, and employee christmas parties are more examples. With luck, nylon will be incorporated by her without any prompting.

If she does not wear hose, enjoy the evening anyway and wine and dine her like a champ. Do not let on you are disappointed in any way, as she can sense this. Women can be uncannily perceptive at all the wrong times.

The next time, be prepared.

During World War II, chocolate and nylons were considered the most romantic gifts you could get for your girl (diamonds and other jewelry excluded). Both were rationed for the war effort, chocolate for the troops, nylon for the material to make parachutes and other equipment. Nylons were difficult to aquire and very expensive.

Seamed stockings became a status symbol and were so popular that if a woman could not find a pair she would draw lines on her bare legs to make it look like she (and/or her man) could find and afford nylons.

Just before the big event, present her with a gift of chocolate and nylons. If you know she does not like pantyhose, start with thigh highs. Wrap both up nicely, and give them to her with a handwritten note in your own words about the WWII story (or other). Add how much fun you had last time, and that you want this to be an incredibly romantic evening.

Ask her not to open the gift until she is getting ready. That way she can much on the chocolates and think about you while she prepares. Also the nylons will be close at hand and not forgotten in her drawer. Good fortune allowing, she will wear them that night.

If she does, compliment her on them without obsess, using words like “classy” and “elegant”. Compliment her entire outfit, not just the nylons. If she does not wear them, compliment her anyway, and hope she will wear them another time. Perhaps she did not feel they match with the outfit. Do not assume she is doing it to spite you. She may have figured it out and is planning a surprise for later.

If this still does not work and she absolutely refuses to don the hose, decide if it is worth another try. Do you like this woman enough to continue to be with her even bare legged? If so try the last, albeit expensive option.

Take her shopping for the next appropriate event and buy her an entire outfit to wear. If you are confident with sizing and her sense of fashion, pick something out and surprise her. If she used excuses for not wearing your gift, listen to them and take care of it. For example, if she feels she can’t wear nylons with open toed shoes, include some classy traditional pumps. Keep the receipts in case she hates it, and make sure that nylons are part of that outfit.

Once she is wearing nylons, has had a couple of drinks and you have had a wonderful evening, there is still a potential problem. You get her alone, and are about to have sex. She excuses herself to go to the bathroom and comes back barelegged. Your heart sinks.

Do not show disappointment if this happens! Sometimes you can get her to put them back on, but this is risky. Remember that she thinks she is being sexy and wants to sleep with you, so never become demanding or angry.

The best course of action is to prevent such an occurance. As she is getting up to refresh herself, tell her how beautiful she is and how wonderful her outfit is. Say it in your own way, but let her know that you want to take her clothes off, like unwrapping a present. Hopefully she will find this sexy, and like the idea. That way you have control, and can leave her nylons on until the very last. If she lets you, just leave them on all the way!

Once you finally are able to be with her in nylons, don’t ignore the rest of her body. Lots and lots of foreplay, pay special attention to her breasts, and other places you know she likes. Be sure you frequently gaze into her eyes without wide eyed staring. Listen to her, pay attention to her, and act on her desires. Reward her and please her so she will want to be with you over and over again!

If you are good enough she might even fall alseep in her pantyhose, and that is a fantasy in itself. A woman who just made love to you in nylon is probably not going to mind you enjoying her legs a little when she is asleep. If you think she does mind, then don’t do it.

Always communicate and always respect her wishes. She will then do the same for you.

Somewhere along the line, she is going to have the proverbial lightbulb go off in her head. When she does ask, always be honest. If she thinks it is too “freaky” then it is best you know as soon as possible. But if she is into it and you… nylon heaven awaits.

Early and often, after you get her in hosiery, make sure you get pictures. As many as possible without being creepy. That way, even if she ditches the nylon because of a run or whatever you will at least have that to enjoy. If the relationship does not work out, you still have the pictures to “remember the good times”. If you wish, you can share them with us!

Good luck, and happy hunting!

-Shvengali

If your girl likes to wear lingerie to bed, but never wears hosiery, buy her a garter belt with the proper accoutrement . If she is adventurous, start to get her into roleplaying and costumes. Eventually get her a cheerleader or Vegas show girl or hooters girl or other outfit that requires pantyhose.

At least at first, buy her crotchless pantyhose so she can open the package and know they are new. This also gives it more of a fun “costume play” feel, instead of a “I want to rip the crotch out of your pantyhose and ravage you” feel.

When you are finally comfortable enough to cut out the crotch do it carefully to avoid runs. She will feel prettier with perfect hose, some women will not wear them at all if they have a runs. Others don’t care if you rip them to shreds.

A woman who truly loves you will wish to please you and acquiesce to your desires, but she has to WANT to do it for you. She will eventually get turned on knowing that she is turning you on. My lady gets wet just putting nylons on, anticipating driving me crazy and what I am going to do to her in return. This from a woman who had never bought a pair of pantyhose or even stockings before she met me.

If she feels forced, or that you only want her because of her hose, she may even stop wearing altogether in a concious or subconcious attempt to insure that it is HER that you want to be with, not just her pantyhose.

This can easily become an “irresistable force vs immoveable object” paradox. You feel she does not love you because she refuses to wear, and she refuses to wear because then you won’t be loving HER. This will cause the relationship to erode amazingly quickly, and you will find yourself plummeting down the bitchy rollercoaster to hell.

However, if it goes the other way and you both combine energies in a single direction rather than opposing, you are in for a wonderful ride on the nylon coaster of love. The key is that she wears because she feels you love HER, and so she wishes to please you.
Love has a way of opening doors. I didn’t wear nylons every day for most of my life. When I got with my boyfriend he asked if I would be opposed to it. I thought “what the hell” and put a pair on. He enjoyed it a great deal, rubbing my feet and such. Which in turn I enjoyed a great deal. Now, I started wearing them all the time, because it was like a game, for him to come and rub up against me to see if I had any on. The more I wore them, the more attatched to them I go. We’ve had sex in hose before and it feels totally different than “regular” sex. It’s difficult to explain but I don’t think I really have to here. I sleep in them. I wear them under my jeans and I’m more inclined to wear skirts and dresses around the house now. I wear nightgowns as opposed to pajams. I stomp around the house in heels. It’s changed how I see myself and it’s changed my sense of fashion in general.

For the women who are strictly against them I have this to say: Get a few different pair. The fit and feel is different with each brand. Buy the right size. Use the chart on the back of the packages if you have to, it’s far better to spend a few moments getting the right size than to waste good money on something that you will find uncomfortable. Try different colors as well. With all the brands of hose out there in the world each and every woman should be able to find some she simply can’t live without.

It’s gottne to be a way of life for me. I torn off the corner of my toenail some how and my darling boyfriend said, innocently, why don’t you take off the hose? My reply was “fuck you”. I can’t imagine not wearing them. They keep me warm and I feel like I have a secret from the rest of the world. It’s kind of naughty but it’s my little secret and I like it.

That’s my two cents here. *shrug* for what it’s worth. You know me, I’ve got an opinion on everything!
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The only thing that bare feet should be put in are hose!
How many times have you heard a woman bitch because this guy or that did not even look at her face while talking to her. “All he did is stare at my boobs!”, or “My eyes are up here!” are commonly heard remarks.

They do have a point. I know women that I won’t go out of my way to talk to, or maybe even see if they are not wearing nylons (If this sounds shallow to you, please think about the many ways women judge men, beginning with “size of wallet”).

The ladies in question may be not my physical type, or we may have a personality conflict, or she is just annoyingly airheaded, or bitchy or whatever. Even so, sometimes if they wear hose and heels, I find myself wanting to talk and give attention to them. The next time I see them, if they are in pants, I don’t even notice they exist.

Obviously this is my fetish talking and not my heart (or brain). In my opinion, you will be much happier and more successful if you do not date women that fit into this category.

Try to remember that you don’t pick the women, they pick you. Once they do, only then is the “ball in your court”. Quality women don’t fall for sweaty, hormone filled drunks pawing them at the bar.

Try to be a gentleman, only date women you actually like, and see what happens.
A big problem in admitting your fetish is that she could be jealous and suspicious of any woman wearing that item.

Put yourself in their position.

How would you feel if you started dating a woman that was into say… “cowboys”. She tells you how horny she gets when her man wears a cowboy hat, and buys you one as a present. You, of course, wear it and you end up getting some of the hottest sex ever.

You think: Awesome! No problem! I’ll wear a cowboy hat every night if she wants me to!

A week later, she announces that she wants to go to the local country bar. A couple of her co-workers think it would be fun, and she wants to meet them there.

Can you take her there comfortably knowing that most of the men at the bar will be wearing cowboy hats?

…Or maybe one night you take her to your favorite watering hole, and after a couple of drinks, people start arriving for post theatre, movie, concert. or what have you drinks. Unfortunately, the Pro Rodeo event is in town and in walk 6 real cowboys in cowboy hats who ride bulls and bust broncs and are in incredible shape.

You notice that your woman, already tipsy and getting horny, is sneaking peeks at them. She tells you she wants you to wear your hat when you get home.

Will she be making love to you, or will she be fantasizing about them? What happens if she meets an attractive guy in a cowboy hat when you are not around? Does she not seem to want to make love to you if you are not wearing the hat? If you care, things could get rough.

Even worse, you go take a piss and when you come out one or more of them have approached her, and when you came over they are discussing cowboy hats.

You had better be damn secure that she loves YOU, and not just the cowboy hats or situations like these could become very ugly, very quickly.

Think of how you would wish to be treated, and give her the same courtesy.

She needs to feel that she is the only woman in your world, and you are proud to be with her. She wants to be treated like a loved, cherished treasure. She wants to be respected and listened to, secure in the fact that you love HER and want to be with HER. She does not want to be used as a sperm recepticle or to be objectified. She does not wish to be ignored or even treated differently simply because she is or is not wearing nylon.