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I’m just looking for some advice here. I have had a pantyhose fetish since I was 13 years old. Every girl I’ve ever dated I’ve tried to get to buy into my fetish but it’s only worked a few times. Now when I date someone I don’t bring it up because I don’t want them to think I’m a weirdo. Any advice on how to get by this?

Also, are there any members from Massachusetts or New England on here?

Thanks for your help in advance…
i look to it as more of a trust issue. if you feel that the girl you with can’t be trusted with such a secret, then i wouldn’t share it

buuuuut if wanna try something, ask them first, “do you have a fetish?”

kind of poke around a while and see what turns them on.

now when they ask you if you have a fetish, go ahead and let them know you enjoy women in pantyhose/stocking/nylons whatever it may be. if they go like what? why? give them the “classy look” line.

i think it gives women a more classy look to them. more elegant. something along the lines of that

it’ll show that you like girls who have a more classy sex appeal which some girls like to think they have but never could find a way to show it. now that you’ve introduced a way for them to do it, then great, you have a girl in pantyhose

if you wanna let them know that you like wearing them………..uhm….tricky. you have to know they trust you and fairly open to things. but just be kinda frank with them. of course they’ll think its odd at first but if you’ve already given your reasons why you like them (like somewhere you’ll probably have to tell that you like the feeling of them), then they’ll start to understand. of course, it is a risk, you just gotta feel it out
It seems to me, like you are already successful. You stated, “Every girl I’ve ever dated I’ve tried to get to buy into my fetish but it’s only worked a few times.” I would say keep doing what you are doing. See what the girl’s reactions are when you bring your fetish up. Study their reactions, see what presentation works best. It’s basically a refine and improve process.
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A Couple of My Favorite Questions:

Nice legs. Are You wearing pantyhose?

Are these pantyhose for you?

I love wearing pantyhose. Nothing looks and feels better.
The way I have met girls who liked me in pantyhose was to wear pantyhose openly. If a girl noticed my pantyhosed legs, liked what she saw and had the nerve to say something, then I was on to something that was usually quite good and memorable.

I even met my wife that way so it worked out long term as well.

My tactic may not be for everyone for various reasons, but it’s worked well for me.
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Anyone want to meet? Swap pics? Or just chat about pantyhose? Put me on your yahoo messenger buddy list and if you see me online, say hello. Check out my profile.

IM or e-mail me at

A Couple of My Favorite Questions:

Nice legs. Are You wearing pantyhose?

Are these pantyhose for you?

I love wearing pantyhose. Nothing looks and feels better.
Yeah it’s not that easy telling women that pantyhose is your fetish, let alone tell them you wear hose yourself. I’ve been wearing pantyhose for 2 years and only 3 friends that I hand around with knows my fetish. As for participating, not happening. But I am looking for someone who respects my fetish and love me for myself and trying not to be someone else.

I live in Chicago, women prefer pantyhose for business reasons, otherwise it’s bare legs with sandals, or my most hated thing:

It is not an easy thing to bring up our fetishes, but the fact remains that being as honest as possible not only with others but most important with ourselves makes things that much easier. You first have to be comfortable with yourself before you can confess your inner desires to others, and that is not always easy to do. I have been utterly fortunate in finding women to indulge me because I am honest about it first and foremost, but that does not work for everyone either. Everybody has to find their approach to things, and what works for me may not work for someone else. As someone else mentioned you kind of need to feel the other person out before you go telling them about your fetish because if you do not then it could seriously blow up in your face. My best advice is to be honest with yourself about what turns you on personally and be careful how you approach others with it. This forum is great for letting out your thoughts so throw it past us as we are quite supportive!
We have been dating for 3 months. I told her about my fetish within a month of us dating. I wasnt sure how she was going to react because she works in a business casual environment and there is not many women in their early 30’s that wear them. One morning we were sitting watching tv. I told her that I had something to tell her. I was honest with her and told her about my fetish. She was shocked to say the least but said we could try it sometime. She did say that she hadnt worn any for about a year. When I heard that, I thought there was no way we were going to try it. Boy, was I wrong!!! I have bought her some Wolfords, Pretty Polly and Aristoc. She loves them and actually asks me when we can go out so she can wear them. Two weeks ago, we spent the weekend away in Maryland. We had a nice romantic dinner and she looked incredible! She had on a super short black skirt, black 3 inch heels and a pair of Aristoc Ultra Shine off black pantyhose. Even before we left for dinner, she said that she loved the Aristoc and need to order more of them!! Music to my ears!!! The looks she was getting at dinner were incredible. Men couldnt keep their eyes off her legs. Imagine this….31 years old, 5′3” in 3 inch heels and is maybe 125lbs. I could keep my hands off her. When we got back to the house, we had the best sex ever!!! Her crotch panel was completely soaked!!! What an incredible night! So any advice we could give is to be completely honest with your partner. Get her to ask questions. The more conversations you have about the topic the better your chances are of getting your partner to understand your fetish. Good luck!!
Being a woman who wears, I know that when guys in general see hose, they flip and you get a LOT of looks. You might try plying to the lady’s ego…..

“I think you’re the hottest thing going I bet you twenty bucks that if you wear hose and a nice skirt with some heels, you’ll get ten guys to look at you at least once….”

That may be all it takes, it’s empowering to wear them. The attention they bring is amazing.
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The only thing that bare feet should be put in are hose!
[quote=”tlktm”]I’m just looking for some advice here. I have had a pantyhose fetish since I was 13 years old. Every girl I’ve ever dated I’ve tried to get to buy into my fetish but it’s only worked a few times. Now when I date someone I don’t bring it up because I don’t want them to think I’m a weirdo. Any advice on how to get by this?

Also, are there any members from Massachusetts or New England on here?

Thanks for your help in advance…[/quote]

Face it-a woman wearing pantyhose is weird. Asking a woman to wear pantyhose deserves at least 10 years in prison. Women let husbands beat them, cheat on them etc…and they go roght back to “thier man”. Ask your wife or girlfriend to wear pantyhose hose you are a sick pervert.

Women just don’t get it and they never will. When they burned their bras in the 60’s and 70’s I wish they would have left them on during the inferno.
It all depends on how the two of you communicate. I usually dont have a problem getting a girl i am with into wearing hose for me. I do NOT however use words such as FETISH because i think it automatically paints a picture of some wierdo sneaking into a woman’s hamoer or something. A good way to break the ice is if you see a woman in a dress and she is bare-legged, you can mention to your S/O “Man she should wear hose, she doesn’t look right bare-legged” or perhaps when discussing fashion, you can mention that you find nylons sexy. really just be yourself and be laid back, I dont understand why people make such a big deal about “coming out of the closet” so to speak about ther liking for things like hose/feet/shoes whatever. when you stress about it, then it makes you more nervous about bringing it up and it can sometimes make you come off as a wierdo.