adult incest

Welcome to the Incest Board, Nadia.
From what I hear Jordan has one of the wisest rulers in your region. He sems to care deeply for his country and its people. He also does not seem to be as extreme in his Islamism as other rulers in the region. So overall you could easily do worse.
If you’re under 18 you shouldn’t be telling the Incest Board about what you and your brother are doing either. Most countries in the world today frown upon underaged people using the internet to talk about anything sexual with adults. Whether we agree with that or not doesn’t matter; its something everyone has to live with.


But assumng you’re at least 18, may I ask who started it? You or your brother? Does Islam view it differently if a man takes his sister versus if a sister seduces her brother?
All in all, I would suggest you be very, very careful about your secret.
tnx for ur concern . and njo worries , im 18+ , in islam , its taboo for sure , wether bro or sis did the first move .
but in our community and traditions , the girls are always to be blammed , and the guys are the victims.
guys in jordan , can have sex , no proof they did , but girl if have sex , the hymen tells what have they done !!!
by chance ,using a fake *** account to make fool of my bro , things went beyound what i expected or intended to find , but i found that bro peep on me while im sleeping or changing , and he wears my lingeries , sniff them , fool around with them . since that day , i found out that im not innocent !! and the sex bomb inside me exploded and drifted me with the most weird desires and acts

hi ,
i didnt loose my hymen yet and if i did loose it , and even i did get into contact out of islamic feild , the traditions still be concerned towards the girls mistake ,and even if my husband was christian , but from jordan , he will kick me out if he knows that i lost my hymen
well family if knew that i need a reconstruction of the hymen , i think i will be kicked out of life for that .
So its not a matter of religions , but a matter of traditions in Jordan , i would never dare to have some fun with a local guy that i dont trust ,
for an example , my older sister who is married now , thanks god :! , had a bad experience , when she was engaged to a guy , he offered to kiss her and fondle with her , she loved him and was certain that she will be married to him soon , and so she accepted to surrender for him , but she didnt go all the way , just had fun and kissing stuff .
after this accident , the guy broke the engagment , and the reason was , : IF SHE DID KISS ME AND I TOUCHED HER , SHE MIGHT HAVE DONE THAT WITH OTHERS B4 ME , SHE IS A SLUT .
tnx god that when a relative living in USA was admired with my sis , and she married him , but i am sure that she didnt love him at all (she met him cpl of times at home , and spoke over the phone , and thats all ) , but she knows that if she didnt marry him , she will end up with rumours hunting her , and wont ever marry , and will be a shame for her family .

That life in jordan !

Nadia,

I’m glad your hymen is intact. Now if only your brother never ever talks about what happened, maybe your worries will be for nothing.
Here at the Incest Board we hear what seems like a never ending stream of young men expressing their desire to have sex with their sister or mother. These young men rarely seem to understand what the consequences might be of either trying or succeding. Incest has a very big stigma attached to it nearly everywhere so those who engage in it MUST be committed to it and to keeping it their secret from the outside world. Its only a thing for play with pubescent kids and/or for those few who AGREE upon it. Its nothing anyone should ever force upon anyone else.
I’m sorry to hear that your future sounds so bleak, Nadia, but I’d heard before of how conservative cultures such as many in today’s Islamic world will destroy their own daughter’s life over any premarital sex. Personally, I fail to see God’s love in that.
I would, however, like to remind you that both you and your sister grew up in Islamic Jordan, so both of you should have known what the consequences were likely to be for having any sort of sexual contact outside marriage. The moments of weakness you and your sister had might be understood or excused in some parts of the world, but not under conservative Islam (from what I hear).
I’m glad your sister at least was able to escape being cast out, even if she had to arrange a marriage that gave hernearly the same result as being cast out. At least there may be hope for her to build a decent life in her new home.
What are YOUR chances for finding the same sort of solution as your sister took?