adult incest

Im a 21 year old female that has never before in my life thought of my father or mother in any other way then just my parents…actually once I did my cousin btu I was really young. Well my husband and I often role play the whole daddy and daughter thing…I have no problem with this. Frankly its hot calling my husband daddy and we have quite a few kinks that we like, but Im wondering if its something he would actively pursue if we end up ever having a daughter. Im pregnant right now with our first child and its a boy, he was really wanting a girl for some time. Do you think I should put two and two together or just think its an innocent coincedence?
Its cool that some people do pursue it but I dont want it leaving our bedroom, I think its crossing a line for my family. Thanks

Please tell me if what I think I hear is what I hear. I hear you worrying that today’s roleplaying with your husband — probably brought up by him and to which you’ve gone along with — may be an early sign that he’ll want to do the real thing with whatever daughters you two may eventually have? Is that right?
Many people have fantasies that they keep as fantasies for one reason or another. Others have fantasies that they share with the person they feel they can trust most, but with no one else. That may just be a verbal disclosure or extend to acting the fantasy out if that other person is willing. Then there are those who have fantasies that are preludes to acting it out in a wider sense. I imagine, however, that there’s fewer people in this last category than the other categories. That’s because most people realize that there’s a huge difference between thinking something and actually doing it. But as to your husband, I have no idea which category he’ll turn out to be beyond the one he shows he’s in now. Do you see any real indications he’ll wish to act his fantasies out with a daughter some day or is this just worries/uncertainties you’re having abot this behavior or even about him and/or your marriage?
Every thing starts out as a fantasy doesn’t it. Most of them never come true.
Perhaps your fears are unfounded and misguided. As a almost new mother you want to protect your child.
Could it be that you have incest confused with abuse, molestation, and forced sex? Its a given that some of the above does occur its not alway the case.
If at sometime in the future you have a daughter, and you see your husband holding her kising her,changing her diaper, giving her a bath, as all fathers do, will you be thinking he wants to have sex with her? Will you jump in as a protective mother and drive a wedge between them telling him not to touch her or will you see him as a good and loving father?


I think maybe I should have rephrased what I had said before…
Yes in some way I do fear that a fantasy can get too far out of hand, But I know my husband is a very good man. I have never really thought about anything haveing to do with incest till my husband and I role played, seeing that he is older than I am, it was a kinky way of playing off the age difference (only 5 years but still)
My original post was more me wondering how many people play off the fantasy as just that or how many let it cross the line, should I ever feel the need to worry because he has this fantasy and most of all…
how many other women on here that have just played the role have ever thought like I have. Lets not get to analytical here Iowa, seeing that you dont know my husband, myself or our relationship, Ive noticed you have jumped to a few conclusions of your own already, but i was asking for advice to help me settle my mind thats it!