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Most people die alone, to some extent. As Samhain said, what would fill the void? A partner, but just any partner? What about a partner who sometimes snaps at you, or cheated on you once? People spend their entire lives looking for that perfect person to "complete them" and it very rarely works out. The best thing you can do is to work on YOU. Work on loving yourself, and you’ll feel much less dependent on receiving love from others. Work on overcoming your fear of dying alone, because guess what, if you dwell on a fear like that it will probably come true. I see it over and over again - athlete is a heavy favorite but petrified of losing, and he does. Beautiful girl so desperately wants a partner and fears being alone, and her quite palpable fear drives away potentially great partners (this just happened to me a few months ago, actually). So just keep loving yourself and others, including your family and platonic friends (which can be just as fulfilling as a romantic relationship, despite what most people believe), and you should be fine

I know the feeling youre describing, not necessarily the idea of dying alone, I guess I dont think ahead quite that far yet.
But yeah, Ive definitley had feelings of "God I just want a boyfriend damnit, I want someone to cuddle with, etc. etc. [insert reason here]."
And sometimes Ive almost convinced myself that that would be "the solution."
But Ive realized, yeah, that a boyfriend definitely isnt the missing piece, only I myself can fill the missing piece, and unless Im able to fill that last piece, no one will be able to.

That doesnt mean tho, that I still dont ever crave havin a boyfriend. I think thats sorta normal for poeple to feel, ya know, to long for a partner.
Listen, I don’t think gay people should worry about dieing alone. Looking at the stats of devorce rate in married couples (most of the male-female) straight people even have this problem. Now I do not think we need for people to accept homosexuality, I do not think that a sexual oriantation should have to be popular. I myslef had feelings like this before but then I realized that are people who are friends (or more) that love me. Dieing alone should not be what we worry about, what we should worry about is dieing unhappy. If you are feeling low, just take a good look in the merroir and ask yourself the big question. Do I love who I am, if not then make the changes, if so, all the better. If one loves who they are truly than nothing else really matters - and the search for partnership will become so much eaiser. It is alot eaiser to love and be loved if you are in a good frame of mind, balanced and sure.
Dylan (I hope you don’t mind me using your real name), I agree with you in what you say. I too would love a boyfriend and sometimes feel a bit down not having one, but that won’t solve all my problems.

Dazed Lucy you make a good point too, except I disagree with you when you say that you don’t think people need to accept homosexuality. People do need to. People need to open their closed minds and reject conservative values. Obviously many people have already done so and have been brought up doing so, but still, there is so much unneeded hatred going on out there that we could do without.