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Maybe getting into too much information here but you did ask. :p Some lubes seem nearly impossible to get off after playing.

Actually lately that is the only thing that has been "messy" for me in a long time. I do have more gas typiclly the next day. I did have an incident long ago where I bled a little after but that only happened once to me. I hadn’t really thought of it but it is interesting that back before everyone used condomes I never experienced an enema effect.

Maybe this is just my experience, as with everything, I’m sure individual mileage varies.

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Actually, in the male it is the prostate, but the same spot as the male prostate in the female body is the every mythical "g-spot". There isn’t anything special there, that I know of, but it is the same spot of the body that needs to be hit in a woman. Or so I have been told, at least.

Anal is different for every person. I myself am what I call a natural bottom. I have yet to find a man who doesn’t go in without pain. Of course, it is important, no matter what, that the man take it a little slow in the beginning going in. I’ve actually found that different men react differently to going inside of me. One guy, who had never done anal before, said it was too tight, that it hurt. Other guys have wanted me to bear down on them while inside of me. As with all things, every one is different.

The most important thing, IMHO, is communication. If it hurts you, tell your partner. Its not about pain and any partner worth having will be patient and make it good for both of you. When they do, it is truly a mind blowing orgasm and well worth the wait, and work, involved.
hm.. I tried anal once myself.. it was completely unplanned during sex.. we were having regular sex when he accidentally pulled his penis all the way out.. instead of putting it back in my vagina I put it in anally.. completely on impulse. It didn’t hurt at all, even though it was my very first time (didn’t even try it with a dildo or something before). It probably helped though that I was on top, very horny and soaking wet. Because it wasn’t planned I didn’t go to the toilet before or had an enema.. but it wasn’t messy at all.. so, good experience.. although the week after I bled a little from there and it kinda hurt (felt like a papercut or sth like that).. but I don’t know if that’s related, ’cause there were several days between that and the sex. I don’t know if I would be into it again.. just doesn’t do anything for me and the idea is still kinda weird.. kinda ‘exit only’.

I’ve also used my finger on two different guys.. they both kinda liked it, but more like a one time experience. One of the two came but said it was a very different orgasm then normal and it wasn’t as good.

Ah well.. don’t deny before you try!
I would have to agree with the previous post. Fingers and dildo’s aren’t the same thing, but then I don’t use either of those very much myself. It may be all about the technique, as with everything else.

As to not enjoying the orgasm as much…the truth is, it is an amazing, mind blowing orgasm. But it is also as much a mental orgasm as a physical one, at least with my limited experience. Your guy may have been kind of "batteling" the sensation. Most straight guys are uncomfortable with recieving anal stimulation. The stimulation still works, but they don’t let themselves enjoy it as much cause they think it means they are gay. Truth is, it is a simple, biological response. Just like a woman raping a guy. They physical body will always react to the stimulus, though sometimes the mind can over ride it.

Probably, the guy just didn’t "want" to enjoy it, inspite of actually enjoying it. Does that mean you should do it again? Only if he wants to. I mean, really….if he doesn’t want to enjoy it, he won’t, so don’t worry about it. Its all about making your partner feel wonderful. If he doesn’t want to do it again, don’t make him or bug him to try it again. Its really all about him. If he wanted to do anal on you, and you didn’t want to do it, you’d probably be upset if he kept bothering you about as well, wouldn’t you? So long as you honor his wishes and both have fun, its all good. Go with what works, try new things, but if your partner says he/she didn’t like it…..don’t do it again.

At least, that’s my advice. Have fun
It will help stretch your sphincter as well as help you get used to the feel of something there.

Everything people have said about lubricants, condoms, & playing safely is good advice. Lube will definitely make it a much more enjoyable experience as well as make it a safer one.

Possibly the most important is to have a patient partner. If you have one who cares about you, believe it or not, it will be better too. I realize that this isn’t always possible but for your first time if you can have these things you will always look back at that first experience with even more tender feelings than if it is a random thing with a stranger or something like that.
Alright, even though I’ve never had any experience with anal sex or self-penetration whatsoever, whats the deal behind it that makes it erotic?

Like for me, I’ll definitely try it when I get older with a boyfriend (hopefully), since it is passionate in it’s own way. So in that case, it’s erotic in that sense.

I’ve recently discovered through research that the reason why anal sex is such a huge sexual issue for men more than women is because we have the prostrate gland, which arouses men to have an orgasm and ejaculate when touced.
Since the inside of a man’s anus has a lump which is part of the prostrate gland inside of us, it would make sense that the constant penetration and motion of the penis in a man’s anus would lead the other guy to ejaculate.

For those who have experience, is that so, or makes sense? Aside from all of the pain that occurs due to the contraction of the anus around whatever is being placed inside, is there still that significant feeling of pleasure and arousal that leads you to engage in an orgasm or close to it?
The prostate really can only be stimulated well through the anus. Oh, sure, there can be all kinds of psychological play along with it relating to submission etc. but the core value IMHO is what I call a man’s G-Spot, the prostate. For me there is also a psychological value of "giving myself" to my partner but I don’t think that it is necessary for enjoyment of this.

I think I have mentioned this before but I have orgasms anally with penetration. Usually not with any ejaculate but it has happened. I had a partner who set out to see how many times he could make me ejaculate (10)so he gave me oral sex while stimulating me anally so that was different but it was quite an afternoon & that wasn’t the only play we had that day. I have only a few times had any pain from penetration but usually my partners have had some good lubricant & have taken it slowly. I do have a pretty good handle on being able to relax myself so I’m sure that helps.

I am always amazed when my Doctor appologizes before she gives me a prostate exam. It feels so good I almost ask for more. There are 2 Doctors who see our family that job share both are Women about my age. Both give good anal but one is just a little better than the other & she always gives a love pat or two on my tush when she is done which makes it a little more intimate. Please don’t get me wrong they are professional about this but I can’t help but enjoy this & the one who adds the love pats I think recognizes it a little more & if she or they are enjoying it themselves they are still business like enough about it that they wouldn’t let on. Anyhow, I’m not about to complain in any way. If I can get some good feeling out of the poking & proding that is the usual anual check-up that is fine with me. I just came out to them so it will be interesting to see how these yearly things go in the future. Sorry I’m rambling but the point is a prostate is a very fun thing even if it is stimulated with just a finger. I do have to add though that I have had it "milked" by a urologist. He managed to do this without my feelingany enjoyment from it. I was quite disappointed.

You can experience prostate stimulation yourself to a certain extent without anything more than your finger(s) & some lubricant. Your prostate is most likely reachable if you feel for it & believe me you will know when you have found it. It isn’t quite the same as having a man’s penis doing the job but it still beels quite good.

If I remember correctly the details have been covered in another thread. Try a search for anal sex or maybe taking it up the ass. I can’t remember right now. If you can’t find it go ahead & PM me I can go into it in more detail if you want.

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I usually give, being intro younger guys and all. The first guy who ever gave it to me when I was a young sprite had biceps the size of tree trunks, and I was so happy to be wrapped up in’em that if here was any pain, I don’t remember it!

I had a guy that I slept with once who was kinda small and just a freshman in college and it kind of hurt him when I tried to go in, so I laid on my back and let him be on top and go down as slowly as he wanted. It was great fun! We’re still friends.
Lots of guys and gals alike enjoy "natural" anal sex, which means you don’t use an enema and there will be waste on the penis/condom. It washes off! Do it when you’re relaxed (not drinking because you’re not aware and could hurt yourself) and use LOTS of water-based lube (KY or Wett or something similar). Don’t rush it, and if it hurts too badly, stop. If you want to use an enema so your anus is clean, remember to stay hydrated and give yourself a good butt-washing after you’ve finished going to the bathroom. Remember, anal sex isn’t for everyone. (The ancient Greeks had a VERY gay-friendly culture, yet anal sex was unheard of.) Be prepared to feel like you have to go to the bathroom during sex; it’s natural, but believe it or not, you won’t.
See, where I stand, I’m not into it in terms of pleasure, you know? It kinda skeeves me out to take it up the ass, since I’ve NEVER had anything up my ass, except for a thermometer…lol…But that was a LONG time ago.

But, I AM curious towards anal sex, and would be willing to try it or mabe someday do it with myself…

To the rest of you when you first got plugged, whether with another guy or with yourself, were your thoughts towards it skeevy or uninterested at first? Did you grow on it? lol
Hey all…don’t get to a computer too much these days. In answer to the last question, I have never been uninterested in the slightest bit, getting "plugged," as you’ve put it, so gently yet so firmly -kinda like how it’s supposed to be. I think the case may be that I was designed to love it in the ass, by nature and nurture. I’ve also never been "skeeved" about it either because I always make sure that I get with beautiful boys who respect and admire me for the magical creature that I am, and wouldn’t want me to have anything but the best times.
To be honest I haven’t had hemeroids before I had anal, often after though. I only get out maybe once a week or less so there is plenty of time for it to clear up. I’m not talking about the bleeding kid anyhow, just itchy & puffy. I suppose if I had a live in male partner it woulld be different but I also suspect that If I were getting it closer to daily the hemeroids wouldn’t react that way. I also think that using some good lube could make another go at the back door possible even if I were to be expereincing them as they come to me.
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If you walked up to me in the street & asked me this I may verbally make you think that you were receiving what you indirectly are asking about.

I assumed though that you had a curious question on your mind so I answered it as such. Isn’t that what newsgroups are for anyhow? I can’t see your face or hear any inflections in your voice so if you have other intentions I couldn’t really tell so I chose to think that you were being sincere.

Anyhow, one of the cliche` things that I heard teachers said when I was in school that actually makes sense to me is this "The only stupid question is one that isn’t asked." I hope you keep asking questions. Keep asking here, ask everytime you have something that you want to learn no matter where you are. No matter who you are talking to. Questions that come from the heart with the intention of learning are the best thing to make sure that things improve from generation to generation. I could rant on for a while more on this but I just wanted to let you know that I don’t think that it is a stupid question.

BTW- Hemorrhoids don’t always get inflamed with anal activity. I forgot to mention that earlier.

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I’m not gay, but maybe I can help somewhat.

When I was expecting my twins, I had horrible hemmorhoids. After I had my babies, the hemmorhoids became even worse. Every bathroom trip was sheer agony, and I was bleeding when I’d go. Ouch.

What I did was increase my fiber and water intake. I also used aloe wipes after going (I actually used baby wipes) Also, do not, do not, do not, strain when you go. If you can’t go, don’t force it, because you can cause tearing and more pain. After a while, things cleared up, and I honestly have not had problems with them for close to year now. Thank goodness.

As far as anal sex goes, I have still been nervous about resuming anything there again, but my husband doesn’t mind. He prefers the "normal" route. So I can’t tell you how it would feel once you’ve had the hemmorhoids, but I wouldn’t try it until you’re feeling better or else you can cause yourself a lot of misery, plus the risk of infection from tearing.

If you try those suggestions it may help matters for you. But if not, you really need to see a doctor. They can prescribe medications to help and/or you can have laser surgery. You need to be sure that the cause of your pain, and bleeding if you have any, is indeed from what you think it is.

Hopefully you’ll feel better soon. I know it’s far from fun.

{{{Hugs}}}
Recently I’ve been getting intimate with a very good friend of mine, marking my first homosexual experiences. We are both excited and I am ready for penetration, but don’t know how to start.

I know there’s more to it then just sticking it in. I know you’re supposed to train your anus and all of that. What’s the best way to get ready? I live with my parents, so I can’t just go out and buy a dildo or KY Jelly. What other ways are there to prepare myself? Are there any lubricants you can use that are seemingly innocent.

Please help. Thanks.
Go slow. Be gentle. Lots of lube and lots of patience.

After my gay support group meeting broke up last week, a few of us were talking about anal. These other guys loved it, while I’m not too crazy about it. One guy was talking about an ex-bf of his who made anal a wonderful experience and he said that rimming (oral stimulation back there) was key.

Does your very good friend live in a situation where he can buy and keep dildos or lube? James Q is right; condoms are important.
I get no enjoyment out of being a bottom, I’m more of a top man. But theres occasions where I bottom for my partner of 3 years and this is what we do. Start off with a little rimming, that should get you relaxed and into it more. Then have your friend lube his fingers up and finger you with one finger while getting oral, it helps you relax (does me anyway). after you get used to one finger, have him start to work a second in slowly, once you adjust to that, have him roll a condom on, lube up good and have him ease it in slowly. You will be ok, and maybe you’ll enjoy it a lot. I know my partner loves to bottom, and I love to top. Hope this helps you out.
look ive asked this before without much luck, i dunno why, seems like people dont wanna talk about it? at any rate, having got hemmeroids and experienced how doing a shit is on them, ive not heard anything about hemmeroids with men who have anal sex a lot? it makes no sense to me that some men would get bad hemmeroids very often from putting so much pressure and stress on their anus.

so whats the deal? do gay men get a lot of hemmeroids? any? why can doing a shit give em but not anal sex???

and they fuckin hurt sometimes too, i could imagine it would put a gay feller out of action for a while
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Hemroids may be internal or external (a protrusion of the rectal muscles.) Bleeding when you wipe may be a symptom. Itching is usually caused by aggravating the area.

There isn’t a consensus on why Hemroids occur, part of it may be heredity. I have yet to talk to anyone who engages in anal sex (self included) who has gotten hemroids. Indeed, anal sex may reduce a tendency toward Hemroids.

Hemroids are most often associated with straining while taking a dump, or trying to "force it". So, avoid constipation (where you have a tendency to push). Eating a high-fiber diet, consisting mainly of fruits, whole-grain products, and vegetables, creates softer and more regular BMs. Drink six to eight glasses of H2O a day.
Do Not force it. Do not strain or hold your breath on the toilet. Choose a time when you are not rushed, and don’t try to hold it in for long periods.

Contributing factors may include the upright posture (while on the stool) which places a lot of pressure on the anal and rectal veins. Aging, obesity, pregnancy, chronic constipation or diarrhea, excessive use of enemas or laxatives, straining during bowel movements.

During anal sex, you are actually relaxing the rectal muscles. Otherwise you are doing it wrong. If it hurts during penetration, stop. You may need to manually stimulate the area to loosen the muscles. The contracting and stimulation during anal sex may help to strengthen the rectal muscles and veins. Having contol of these muscles also helps you not to Strain during a bm.

Hemorrhoid pain is often eased by sitting in a warm tub for about 10 or 15 minutes two to four times a day. Bleeding hemroids may stop if you take two teaspoonfuls of apple cider vinegar in a glass of H2O at every meal. Straining, rubbing, or cleaning around the hermeroids may cause irritation, and itching.

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I would advise against fucking on your first date with someone. Or that your first time is with a stranger. Get to know the person and work into anal. Try messing around doing other things before you go that far. You’ll be able to relax and enjoy it more.

Get a butt plug or dildo to practice with. Something simple like this , or the Butt Plug 4.5" from (note the links may change and redirect) They sell them at sex shops and on line. Never use a dildo with a wire support or vibrator, they can do damage. You want something that is soft and totally flexible, like jelly or Silicone. You may wrap the plug or dildo in a condom for easy clean up.

After you feel comfortable with a plug, try a larger size. Practicing by yourself will help you to relax and learn to control the muscles. Anal sex should be pleasurable. Stop if it hurts.

You may want to use a small, plain-water douche before hand, to clear the area. You can buy the kind that girls use. Don’t go over board on the enema.

Even though you are the "bottom" it is still your responsibility to have a new condom ready for anal sex. Don’t forget to bring one along.

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I appologize in advance if this thread seems a bit crude, but it is something that has been bothering me for a while. I do expect serious answers though, so please don’t make stupid comments.

My boyfriend of 2 months and I are planning to spend a week together at the end of March, during which we will be taking each others’ virginity. I am of course ecstatic about being able to spend time with him (sexually or otherwise), but there is one thing that has been bothering me:

I am very sensitive of personal hygiene, and one of the things I am the most sensitive about is feces. Now obviously, anal sex involves the area of your body where feces are expelled, and I have been quite nervous about what that will mean when my boyfriend and I make love to one another. If you’re diligent with personal hygiene, how big a risk is there of getting feces on your penis? Also, is there any safe, effective, and preferably easy way to clean out your rectal cavity?

Any advice or info is greatly appreciated.
Hi BT343. Firstly, the only sure clean and safe way of having anal sex is to use a condom! Only have unprotected anal sex with someone who you either KNOW is disease free, or has had the respective HIV etc. tests done, and is proven clear!

You can buy anal douches from any sex shop, some chemists outlets may sell them too. These are simple to use. But from my own experience, use this some good long time before having sex, (several hours at least.) as sometimes you may find that there is still some dirty water "inside" your partner. (It doesn’t necessarily all come back out at first motion!) Also, subsequent farting may expel some water too! (Honest, I’m not joking!)
Make sure that you are both freshly cleaned/washed before having anal sex! Apart from these options, there’s not too much else you can do! Don’t forget to use plenty of lubricant! If using a condom, use ONLY WATER-BASED LUBRICANTS!
Please take very good care, and enjoy your experiences together. I wish you both the very best for your future.
Have fun, Love, Dennis.
Obviously, your plan ought to include condoms and lots of water-based lubricant. Douche (enema) is a prerequisite, too. Yet, there is not much more you can do to avoid ‘accidents’. There is a rest risk here which simply cannot be eliminated.

Anal sex seems to be the easiest thing on earth, if you go by the porn movies these days. It all works like a charm. And so it does in the movie world only.

Anal sex happens to be a bit on a ‘kinkier’ side, so if you want to go there, make a conscious decision to relax, go with the flow and accept the realistic possibility that accidents may happen, no matter how much time and effort you put into your ‘preparation work’.

Make allowance for the fact that both your BF and yourself are embarking on a very intimate exploration and that both of you lack the experience and the routine needed. Again, keep in mind that there is much more to it than you usually get to see on the porn and/or hear from the guys who reportedly know all about it.

My bottomline here:

a/ Do your prep work
b/ Relax, relax, relax
c/ Understand that yeah, ‘accidents do happen’, no matter what
d/ Take your time. Practice makes perfect and both of you lack practice
e/ Teach yourself the virtue of great patience. You’ll need it.
f/ Understand that anal sex might be right and great for some but not for all. There is love and great sex without it, too.

Let all of us here know, if you need more info and help. Feel free to pvt, too.

KD
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Sorry dear, but at no time did I comment on you, as a person or your character. (I continue to let that speak for itself.) I did comment on one of your comments. Even in context, it is grossly wrong.

When I said "if you are God or psychic," I was not referring to you personally but every fool out there who believes it when a partner says, "I don’t have an STD," or who believes when they say, "I tested negative." The tests are usually kept confidential. Sometimes a test is wrong, and as I mentioned some guys won’t get tested because then they have to admit they cheated on their mate.

I certainly don’t know everything about how AIDS is spread, but I have met plenty of folks who got it through having unproteded sex with a committed partner who they KNEW to be disease free and had the tests to prove they were clear.

Sorry, I had a problem with your post, but I gotta call ‘em like I see ‘em. And that post was off the mark. No offense, but dude -you should be old enough to handle that.

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OK Hipunk, I admitted that my comment was wrong, and made a full apology. But reading BT343s’ original post, he stated that BOTH are anal virgins. Therefore I still don’t agree that what I said was GROSSLY wrong, in their case!
I am fully aware that with guys already practicing anal sex, this WOULD have been grossly wrong, but these guys aren’t!

To pick up on another point here… If two people, in a relationship, are going to commit to each other, and they have the necessary tests done, I don’t agree that either would "hide" the results. This would only be the case if either one felt obliged to have themselves "checked out" for whatever reason. Then I agree that they might want to hide the results.
But if two people were having the tests because of their relationship, then wouldn’t both partners want to see the others’ results? If you’re with someone who is cheating on you, you are better off with someone else anyway, and should pick up on their reluctance to show their test results! I, for one, wouldn’t take it on trust from anyone who wouldn’t consent to my seeing the results for myself, given the nature of those tests!

Agreed also, that test results can be inaccurate. But if you live your life wrapped up in a plastic bubble for every little "possible threat", you’re not LIVING your life. You are merely skipping around the edges of A life!
I realise now, that you are most likely to come back with some pretentious little quip/retort, but I AM BIG ENOUGH to totally ignore you from here on in! OK?

By the way… You still don’t give any indication as to your age! Are you old enough to have any "life" experience, or are you just another little "know-it-all teenager" who’s so worldy wise, and educated, that you think you know everything? C’mon DEAR… Answer please!

If we are going to continue to have "problems" with each others posts, maybe we should avoid responding to them! EH? (Dear!)

Dennis.
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I understand that your advice was on the condition of anal virginity. However AIDS and other STDs can be transmitted through oral sex as well as other means. To suggest that it is "safe" for "anal" virgins or committed partners to have unprotected sex is grossly wrong because it is patently, and unconditionally wrong. Unprotected sex is always a risk you take. And your partner may lie about his virginity. You may wish it otherwise, you may access it otherwise, but the fact is there will always be a risk with unprotected sex. Dream on, it don’t change the facts.

Not all clinics will allow your partner to see the result of a test, nor will they confirm that the results make you risk free, because that places the clinic in a position of being the authority that signals that it is okay for two people to have unprotected sex. If you can find a doctor who will do that, let me know, he needs to have his license revoked. But you won’t find that doctor or clinic anyway.

You may not know this, but the thing with cheaters is that they don’t ever tell their partner that they are cheating, otherwise it wouldn’t be cheating.

Now, you are welcome to take the risk of unprotected sex and many other risks if you desire, but I hope that when you do so you are fully aware that you are indeed taking a risk. You can fool yourself into believing that it isn’t a risk, but you won’t fool me. Sky diving is risky. Any instructor will tell you that. A person who jumps out of a plane with a parachute and deludes himself that there is NO risk at all, is a fool. I agree that we can isolate ourselves in a bubble, but I hardly see how wearing a condom is living "your life wrapped up in a plastic bubble." The reason there are so many young gay people contracting AIDS today is because they don’t believe there is a risk in having certain kinds of unprotected sex.

You asked how old I am. I have chosen to not list my age. It is none of your business; because you have no need to know. I would hope that anyone here who has something to say, that it would be accepted on it’s own merit, regardless of the age of the person posting it. But to give you a clue as to my age: when closet cases about your age were raising families and running off to the park to suck somebody off in the bushes, I was marching in Gay Pride Parades and burying dear friends, some of the first people to die from AIDS. I hope that doesn’t change how you feel about me.

I have never suggested that someone ignore my posts because they disagree, I don’t know where you get that idea. But Dennis dear, if you would rather I didn’t respond to your posts because I believe you’re misleading people and I am willing to explain why I feel that way; well than you’re a bigger risk taker than I imagined, because you’re going through life with blinders on. I don’t hate you, I don’t even dislike you. But I do question you, that’s the difference.

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Hipunk… I quote your signature:
Dream as if you’ll live forever
Live as if you’ll die today
~ James Dean

"Live as if you’ll die today"…!
Does that make sense to anyone, after reading this persons’ posts? Sounds a bit too "Idealistic" for such a cautious person to be quoting.

I know I’m taking risks! I know what risks I’m taking! I’ve been hidden away from "Life" for so many years, that I really don’t give a damn what anyone says about me, or my behaviour!

At 55yrs of age, and having already wasted the last 23 of them, I intend having the maximum amount of pleasure, and enjoyment I can, until the time has come for me to die!
Whatever the cause, whatever the reason for it, my death will only be a sweet release from that which has burdened me for so long!
If I am responsible for my own demise through my own careless actions, then that’s MY problem. I fully absolve YOU of any blame whatsoever!

I appreciate your concern for the original poster in this thread. I understand that you are giving your very best advice. I also give you my heartfelt condolences for those you have lost to STDs. I withdraw my advice to the original poster in this thread!
I am sorry BT343, if I have mislead you in any way. Please ignore EVERYTHING I have said!

There Hipunk… Is that good enough for you??? EH???

Now GET OFF MY CASE AND GO PREACH TO SOMEONE WHO GIVES A FLYING F*CK!

Yours Sincerely, Dennis! XXX :p
First time? Well of course it hurt but it can hurt anytime you don’t take your time. You can’t just throw something in there & expect it to feel good. You have to be relaxed to be able to enjoy it.

I started with pens & smaller things then moved on to a few fingers at a time gently adding another,not just shoving three in at a time. Now I love using big thick devices whether it be a big dick (although that’s been awhile) or a thick dildo. For me,the bigger the better but I have to be ready for it. I’ll start out by using my index fingers on both hands & gently pulling away from each other & you can feel it stretching. Do that for a few minutes then I just finger bang myself til I’m horned up & feel like I’m ready to go bigger. When you are ready,it feels so fucking good that you won’t even have to stroke yourself to get off. I usually ride slow just to enjoy every inch going deeper & pulling out,then when I get close to cumming that’s when I pick up the pace & ride hard & hit it as deep as I can go to where it’s up against your prostate. It makes for an intense orgasm that lasts a few seconds longer than usual.

Oh and another thing that I use to highten the sensation? I use a mirror. I love watching it go in & out of me.
Anal sex can be a lot of fun if you relax and enjoy the feeling of a cock moving in and out of your rectum. I am a bottom and enjoy having a man fuck me. I also have used my fingers to rub the prostate gland while giving head to a guy and usually he will pump a much bigger load than normal. I have come while being fuck by a man most of the time if he is really moving his cock over my prostate gland. It just feels GREAT. Sometimes I come a lot and other times it is only a small amount and the rest is dry pumping.
Also, This is not part of the discussion, but if you ever suck your man’s balls while he or you jack him off - he will really love it when he cums. He will feel like his whole body is moving forward.

The biggest thing is to take it easy and slow until he can get his cock in and then just get use to the feeling by having him move it around slowly and in and out slowly before going to town so to speak.
I was probably 14 or 15 in the Boy Scouts in Kentucky. An older scout asked me to go skinny dipping with him and told me to leave my underwear and socks in the tent. When we got to the river and stripped I realized there might be more to this than swimming. After playing and touching in the water and getting back on land he got me into a doggie position and started licking my hole. Then he fingered me and I guess I really opened up, cause then I felt his cock slowly coming up my hole. The hot cum just filled everything up/

I still like doing it out in the dirt and leaves. There’s still something about good ole naked ass fucking in the woods that still turns me on.

Anyone else out there who likes fucking in the woods?
Hi, I new on this site!!!I have a boyfriend, we are somewhat together, have feelings fo each other deeply. I feel we are on our way to LOVE!!!! We just have one problem, he has a 8.5 thick dick, giving him orally isn’t a problem. Its just trying to get pentrate my love. I really am I bottom and love to feel a penis inside, me!!! Our first time getting intimate, was my first time in a year having anal sex. I tried lubricating(Astroglide) and put anal-ese in my rectum for pain discomfort. I couldn’t take any of it. My boyfriend was cool about it, really and said,we can work sex!! I was happy, but a little disappoint with myself. So, currently while he is away I have been practicing lubricating the rectum, while trying (anal ese) again. I put two fingers in my anus and started pentrating myself. Hopefully trying get use again of being a bottom and getting pentrating.Didn’t feel that bad!!! (had go bathroom a littlt later though) Question is, what else can I do to make getting easier to my boyfreind penis, I want it to be pleasurable for both of us. Should I buy a dilado around his size and started pentrating to starting getting used of it again and preparing myself. Just tell me what else can I do, please help???Should I repeat this everyday to get use of feelings??? Anything will help!!!
Well, I’d advise you to get not one, but 3 or 4 dildos of increasing size, the biggest one being close, or just as big as your boyfriend’s penis. Take it easy, don’t rush it, play with the smallest one and take your time relaxing your muscles, you’ll eventually get to the biggest one. I personally would recommend that you don’t use anything that numbs the pain, since (in my opinion and limited experience) if you take it easy enough you won’t need it. Good luck

PS: If 3-4 dildos are too expensive, I recommend cucumbers with condoms on them. They’re really great
Excuse me for (I Guess) being frightfully rude …. but am Seventeen (yeah am a Homo) … I want my first Gay experience I duno hw to sy this erm erm when you go to sleep with a guy & I know all stuff about condom and eveyrthing for HIV etc safety but what about faeces? like isn’t there going to be faeces when you put your penis in? I am sure I am being rude or you think i am insincere but I asure you am not! two times I have been to a club now and am just terrified I dont know what will happen properly. Then I sweat and have to leave…I get panic….surely there will be faeces when you penetrate?
Kava Kava can cause permanent liver damage rather easily, especially in quantity…

Poppers are legal, but are they really worth the effort? I know some people swear by them because they can relax muscles and lower inhibitions. However, a little patience can go a long way. Often, it’s easiest to straddle to start out. Then the receiving partner can sit down and control the rate of insertion. It’s my opinion that it helps to push slightly and bear down until the muscles relax. Maybe I’m just a big whore, but I’ve never needed anything artificial to have anal sex. Any yes, when done right, it can be fabulous.

I don’t know about others, but I’ve always found average (6-7 inch) penisies work best, if the person is skillful. If the person isn’t, then size really doesn’t matter, as its usually unpleasant anyway…

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